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daisy
Oct 14, 2008, 02:14 PM
when a guy asks u out first and u respond back sayin no, coz ur taken.. and then that same guys then starts bullying u and starts insultin u in front of everyone makin u feel so low, that u just want to run away in the corner and hide ur face, and then that same guy sometime comes upto u randomly and says that sum1 fancy u etc.. but he blames that his cousin fancy u etc.. what wud that mean??

i know ppl wud say that the person likes this gal, but his expressin it in a different way.. but the things he says, does really offend the gal.. and she does gets upset.. coz the guy then starts to team up with everyone who she fort was her real friends, and they kinda agree with him sum cases.. which she doesnt agree

her personality type is childish but ppl cateagorize her as immature but her childhood friends, her boyfriend and her family dont agree she is immature.. is bein childish a not gud fing?? coz now this guy made his own thread on facebook "who hates ..... as much i do??" and a lot of ppl kinda responded to it, who she cudnt imagine wud say it

just curious to know ur answer
xxx

*PaRi*
Oct 15, 2008, 04:23 AM
i seriously dont think that loser is worth worrying about. hes just being a butt because he cant have you. & its not your fault that you have someone so he just needs to understand that. huni you dont need to worry about those people. honestly if they are gonna team up behind your back they were never really true to you. you are not being immature he is. i dont think you should worry. its not worth it. if people want to hate on you let em. dont let that shit get to you. push back. show em it doesnt bother you. hope it all works out =]

Devdasi
Oct 15, 2008, 10:20 AM
i seriously dont think that loser is worth worrying about. hes just being a butt because he cant have you. & its not your fault that you have someone so he just needs to understand that. huni you dont need to worry about those people. honestly if they are gonna team up behind your back they were never really true to you. you are not being immature he is. i dont think you should worry. its not worth it. if people want to hate on you let em. dont let that shit get to you. push back. show em it doesnt bother you. hope it all works out =]

culdnt hav said it better myself... :custom17:
no point giving tht loser ur time of day!
n if ur so called 'real friends' r teaming up wiv him :batman:
then they never were ur friends...
All the best! :cool:

daisy
Oct 15, 2008, 02:08 PM
fnx pari the way u mentioned it.. really did make sense... but then again its best if sum1 in reality mention that.. coz it cud be that the person is tellin the truth.. or it cud be that he is lying.. but its best for a random person tellin u the truth to ur face in a serious way.. to tell u where u gone wrong, and that so that the person could implent that message within them.. but fanx for the advice :)
xxx

daisy
Oct 15, 2008, 02:08 PM
fnx pari the way u mentioned it.. really did make sense... but then again its best if sum1 in reality mention that.. coz it cud be that the person is tellin the truth.. or it cud be that he is lying.. but its best for a random person tellin u the truth to ur face in a serious way.. to tell u where u gone wrong, and that so that the person could implent that message within them.. but fanx for the advice :)
xxx

Devilz Angel
Oct 15, 2008, 03:03 PM
ok daisy, hes a prick. stick ur middle finger at him n tell him 2 "efffff offff" or just ignore him...which is da option i hate...people are made to talk n backstab u..its life n we gotta face it. if dey sit der n side wid him...ur better off without friends.
n even if ppl call u immature its not a bad thing. either dey grew up way 2 fast or dey dont know how 2 enjoy life. u live ur life wid ur head high n avoid those that want 2 trip u...u kno wat i mean..no1 is worth da drama...i think ur b.f. shuld talk dat prick by da way..


n daisy u have facebook??

daisy
Oct 15, 2008, 07:36 PM
fanx for the advice.. actually m glad that i wrote this topic.. coz i feel much more bettet now.. an i actually like the way u mentioned that they either grew up too fast or they dont know how to enjoy life.. geez if only i cud have friends like u lot in reality.. as for the facebook thing.. well i joined it coz of the pressure i had from my manager to join it etc.. but now i left it and go on there only to see ho eles have joined the thread and see what ppl say about me at work.. which i kinda hate.. coz am the longest worker over there.. poor me :D
xxx

daisy
Oct 15, 2008, 07:36 PM
fanx for the advice.. actually m glad that i wrote this topic.. coz i feel much more bettet now.. an i actually like the way u mentioned that they either grew up too fast or they dont know how to enjoy life.. geez if only i cud have friends like u lot in reality.. as for the facebook thing.. well i joined it coz of the pressure i had from my manager to join it etc.. but now i left it and go on there only to see ho eles have joined the thread and see what ppl say about me at work.. which i kinda hate.. coz am the longest worker over there.. poor me :D
xxx

*PaRi*
Oct 16, 2008, 02:08 AM
anytime =]

BRONZE
Oct 18, 2008, 09:40 PM
when a guy asks u out first and u respond back sayin no, coz ur taken.. and then that same guys then starts bullying u and starts insultin u in front of everyone makin u feel so low, that u just want to run away in the corner and hide ur face, and then that same guy sometime comes upto u randomly and says that sum1 fancy u etc.. but he blames that his cousin fancy u etc.. what wud that mean??

i know ppl wud say that the person likes this gal, but his expressin it in a different way.. but the things he says, does really offend the gal.. and she does gets upset.. coz the guy then starts to team up with everyone who she fort was her real friends, and they kinda agree with him sum cases.. which she doesnt agree

her personality type is childish but ppl cateagorize her as immature but her childhood friends, her boyfriend and her family dont agree she is immature.. is bein childish a not gud fing?? coz now this guy made his own thread on facebook "who hates ..... as much i do??" and a lot of ppl kinda responded to it, who she cudnt imagine wud say it

just curious to know ur answer
xxx



well since u r taken, u dnt have to wori abt wot he says or does or if smbody facies u like he says.
hez jus showing his strength over u. tel him to go f*k hmself!
lol

Devilz Angel
Oct 19, 2008, 04:02 AM
awww dnt wrry we r ur friends...just long distance friends lol
wats ur name on fb? i wanna add u girl lol

•Amrita•
Oct 19, 2008, 08:02 PM
He's just acting like a baby, because he got turned down.
It's sometimes done as a defense mechanism by some guys and even girls, to make it look like they didn't want u in the first place. I wouldn't worry too much about this guy, he seems way too immature anyways. I mean you can't hate on ppl for not liking u in that way, that's too juvenile. Just ignore him and move on, who cares anyways if your already in a r/s?