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[kalashna_love]

Hey guys wana ask you some question. i have been looking all over the net for this issue but couldn't find it.
So iam asking you guys.
I think i should mention this that iam from Fiji so some of you might be able to understand where i come from and the social and economic lives of people here.

I have a friend whom i know very well, he is a guy. spent a lot of time with him closely. There is a problem with his head. he is getting kinda crazy.

His story is like this: The guy is unemployed and its hard to get a job now. but he is trying all the time. he is sending job applications to all the places. his parents are fighting amongst themselves, whenever the dad opens the mouth he curses every one and there is never peace at home.
This guy loves a gal and well the girl has been able to get a job and the guy hasnt. They used to have a live-in relationship in UNI and now they are back to their town.

the girl is kinda treating the guy badly, she will doenst txt or call the guy much coz her dad is kinda strict and will get into big trouble if anyone found out. the girl keeps on saying things that hurts the guy and that kinda stuff.

given some more things that are too long to say here, the guy is suicidal.
and well at times he gets mad. he has anger probs. well when ever the girl hurts him, he hurts himself real badly and gets all depressed and all. the way he acts at times is like he is going mad.

could it be just that the situation is causing him to act and feel this way or is he really going nuts.....

[Almira]

Hey Kalashna

Its a pretty difficult position your friend is in. Story sounds very similar to my cousins problem whose also from fiji.

Anyway, the only advice i can give is to try and be there as much as you can for your friend. Cos he's more likely to be suicidal if he feels like no one understands him or his situation. And maybe tell his gf not to be so mean.

[L]

help him get a job..
and keep him motivated..
talk to him, don't let him bottle-up his anger/stress etc..


hmm.. and like Almira said, be there for him!!
hopefully things will get better..

[cooldude]

Why is ur fren trying to be a bum? Is there end to no. of chicks out there?

Motivate ur fren , help him out , guide him to a job search so that he does't waste time sending job applications to companies he has no interest in...

I m a grad student of Business and I know how difficult the job market is , it can get depressing as well as times but hold on and keep trying but get good advice

Also stop talkin to that bitch ...He needs a true fren or someone who cares in sitaution where there his family is not supportive

Best!
CD

[storyteller23]

make him workout his ass off. That'll make him feel better about himself and will release the hormone which causes stress. Or buy him butt load of alcohol and make him drink it ....first option is better though

[•Amrita•]

Reminds me of someone I know and also a very similar situation.

I think the girl should also understand his circumstances and how much he loves her, but try and tell your friend that he needs to stop treating himself like this. I think he should give the girl some space and she will definately realise what she has.

About the job situation, I know it must be difficult but he shouldn't give up or listen to anyone when they are negative. He needs to surround himself with people who care about him and he needs to stop hurting himself if his girlfriend isn't understanding his situation. I think they need space and maybe he's more attached than she is. It certainly seems that way.

[Devilz Angel]

keep him away from nyquil . =(

[kalashna_love]

Hey Kalashna

Its a pretty difficult position your friend is in. Story sounds very similar to my cousins problem whose also from fiji.

Anyway, the only advice i can give is to try and be there as much as you can for your friend. Cos he's more likely to be suicidal if he feels like no one understands him or his situation. And maybe tell his gf not to be so mean.


hey nice to meet you. so you were from fiji as well?

i will try what you and others have suggested......

[kalashna_love]

Reminds me of someone I know and also a very similar situation.

I think the girl should also understand his circumstances and how much he loves her, but try and tell your friend that he needs to stop treating himself like this. I think he should give the girl some space and she will definately realise what she has.

About the job situation, I know it must be difficult but he shouldn't give up or listen to anyone when they are negative. He needs to surround himself with people who care about him and he needs to stop hurting himself if his girlfriend isn't understanding his situation. I think they need space and maybe he's more attached than she is. It certainly seems that way.

hey amrita you are here.....glad to see you after so many eons. anyways i will try to surround him now......

[kalashna_love]

keep him away from nyquil . =(

dont worry, thanks for the info though, might come in handy

[Almira]

WOW i am so shocked to hear what cooldude had to say. Seriously im so shocked, and he called someone he doent even know a BITCH.That says alot bout him!!!

Why is ur fren trying to be a bum? Is there end to no. of chicks out there?

Motivate ur fren , help him out , guide him to a job search so that he does't waste time sending job applications to companies he has no interest in...

I m a grad student of Business and I know how difficult the job market is , it can get depressing as well as times but hold on and keep trying but get good advice

Also stop talkin to that bitch ...He needs a true fren or someone who cares in sitaution where there his family is not supportive

Best!
CD

[Almira]

Hey Kalashna

yeah some of my family is in Fiji. Nice to meet you too. Wish you all the best!!!

hey nice to meet you. so you were from fiji as well?

i will try what you and others have suggested......

[cooldude]

WOW i am so shocked to hear what cooldude had to say. Seriously im so shocked, and he called someone he doent even know a BITCH.That says alot bout him!!!

Yeah it does say a lot about me ..for a person such as yourself everything I say is SHOCKING.. its more cuz of NEGATIVE ATTITUDE towards me...so don't bother URSELF what m saying :p

Its possible this is 1 side of story but I am assuming that what Kalashnikov said is 100 percent true in whatever he says.. Whatever maybe HER reasons - family pressure or what , Shes a BITCH to that guy...

Peace
CD

[-PiNk PrinCess-]

Pls Behave Everyone.Theres No Need to Call Anyone a Bitch Etc.

No Quotes. No Personal Attacks

[kalashna_love]

Hey Kalashna

yeah some of my family is in Fiji. Nice to meet you too. Wish you all the best!!!

oh ok....so where you living in Fiji at some point in time? if so where at? lets talk, its hard to get a fiji person in this forums feels like at home even though iam in Fiji

[kalashna_love]

Yeah it does say a lot about me ..for a person such as yourself everything I say is SHOCKING.. its more cuz of NEGATIVE ATTITUDE towards me...so don't bother URSELF what m saying :p

Its possible this is 1 side of story but I am assuming that what Kalashnikov said is 100 percent true in whatever he says.. Whatever maybe HER reasons - family pressure or what , Shes a BITCH to that guy...

Peace
CD

yup she is a not so pleasant girl as cooldude has said. Its Kalashna not kalashnikov. kalashnikov is a russian firearm.

anyways some guys and me decided to go over to the girls home beat the shit of the dad, but its all on hold now. but i cant wait to beat the dad up. he is a jerk. someone messes with our buddy they messing with us.

hope the girl burns in hell, hope her family breaks up. die....die.....muahahahahahhahahahaah

[cooldude]

yup she is a not so pleasant girl as cooldude has said. Its Kalashna not kalashnikov. kalashnikov is a russian firearm.

anyways some guys and me decided to go over to the girls home beat the shit of the dad, but its all on hold now. but i cant wait to beat the dad up. he is a jerk. someone messes with our buddy they messing with us.

hope the girl burns in hell, hope her family breaks up. die....die.....muahahahahahhahahahaah

Is't Kalashna the short form of Kalashnikov as U fijians say :p loool

anyways easy fella easy , u dun wanna end up in a high security facility or smethin ..Rite now help ur fren in job search , u can always beat up whoever anytime :)


Easy
CD

[Almira]

Hey Kalashna

Yeah we can talk. just send me a PM with your msn or hotmail. I dont really like to openly discuss about family and dat. But would love to get to know you too :)



oh ok....so where you living in Fiji at some point in time? if so where at? lets talk, its hard to get a fiji person in this forums feels like at home even though iam in Fiji

[kalashna_love]

Is't Kalashna the short form of Kalashnikov as U fijians say :p loool

anyways easy fella easy , u dun wanna end up in a high security facility or smethin ..Rite now help ur fren in job search , u can always beat up whoever anytime :)


Easy
CD

youd be surprised how secure our rederal prisons are. every now and than someone makes a break for it and the cons have to make it on foot through dense jungle through many miles only to be caught by police since they always go to the same place, their home to eat bread and drink tea. thats fiji life for ya....

and yeah files from courts do tend to disappear every now and than except for homicide cases....:D:D:D

[•Amrita•]

hey amrita you are here.....glad to see you after so many eons. anyways i will try to surround him now......


Wen I said that this situation reminded me of someone, it was quite personal to me. let's just say keep your friend away from drugs and harmful things. A broken heart is the worst thing for anyone and loneliness only drives a person insane. Trust me on this... If you know the girl well yourself, tell her to get her head on straight and be honest with this guy and quit leaving him in the dark. If she's not treating this situation seriously then she does not deserve him. I know it's gonna break him apart, but it's better for him to get his heart broken now, rather than later. The more time he spends crying over someone who doesn't deserve it, the longer it's gonna take him to get back up on his feet. If he's confiding in you, it means he trusts you and that's a big thing. You shud just be honest with him and if I were you I wud just go upto that girl and tell her to stop playin around with his emotions.

[frandavis]

Hi buddies, you guys just going Psycho that's only due to mental or emotional strain. there are approximate 75% people all around the world afflicted with Psycho disease . but you can get relief from psycho with just thinking positive and be optimist.

[jackson86]

Psycho is a mental health problem.when any one not get what he/she want in life and get depresses then he/she act different sometime so nagative and destructive manner.it is really hard to just “deal” with this stuff and get over it.for helping that kind of people you just t
ry to talk logic and deal in kindness with them not to be too aggressive and would often prefer to walk away than to fight...