relationship problems

[angel_girl]

ok problem here:

Ive been seeing this guy for the past 3 years now and its getting serious (talking about marriage) but the thing is our parents sont agree to our relationship. Both his parents and my parents. I mean we are both hindu but from different countries. I understand their point of view but we both love each other. i dont know what to do. Any suggestions??

[skater_boy]

you never said your age ??

if you are like older than 21 years

the best option for both of you is convincing both of your parents ,parents who care abt their son/daughter would definitely give in to the wishes of their kids,they don't agree at first coz they are worried abt their son/daughter future

if you feel you love is worth the risk...just move out and live independently with both of you supporting each other with jobs ,it wont be easy ,but if you are ready to sacrifice things then this is another option

last option,just wait for another year,see whether the love is still there between you and then decide

[angel_girl]

you never said your age ??

if you are like older than 21 years

the best option for both of you is convincing both of your parents ,parents who care abt their son/daughter would definitely give in to the wishes of their kids,they don't agree at first coz they are worried abt their son/daughter future

if you feel you love is worth the risk...just move out and live independently with both of you supporting each other with jobs ,it wont be easy ,but if you are ready to sacrifice things then this is another option

last option,just wait for another year,see whether the love is still there between you and then decide



I'm 25 and he's 27 but we both agree to not go against our parents wishes from the beginning so we woulnt move out. we both have to much respect for our parents. we would never just move out

[skater_boy]

you both need to impress your parents convince that its true love and maybe a family friend or a good relative can help you out to arrange a meeting btw both of your parents and discuss the matter

[angel_girl]

you both need to impress your parents convince that its true love and maybe a family friend or a good relative can help you out to arrange a meeting btw both of your parents and discuss the matter

yeah thx we'll try talking to them again.