relationship problems

[angel_girl]

ok problem here:

Ive been seeing this guy for the past 3 years now and its getting serious (talking about marriage) but the thing is our parents sont agree to our relationship. Both his parents and my parents. I mean we are both hindu but from different countries. I understand their point of view but we both love each other. i dont know what to do. Any suggestions??

[skater_boy]

you never said your age ??

if you are like older than 21 years

the best option for both of you is convincing both of your parents ,parents who care abt their son/daughter would definitely give in to the wishes of their kids,they don't agree at first coz they are worried abt their son/daughter future

if you feel you love is worth the risk...just move out and live independently with both of you supporting each other with jobs ,it wont be easy ,but if you are ready to sacrifice things then this is another option

last option,just wait for another year,see whether the love is still there between you and then decide

[angel_girl]

you never said your age ??

if you are like older than 21 years

the best option for both of you is convincing both of your parents ,parents who care abt their son/daughter would definitely give in to the wishes of their kids,they don't agree at first coz they are worried abt their son/daughter future

if you feel you love is worth the risk...just move out and live independently with both of you supporting each other with jobs ,it wont be easy ,but if you are ready to sacrifice things then this is another option

last option,just wait for another year,see whether the love is still there between you and then decide



I'm 25 and he's 27 but we both agree to not go against our parents wishes from the beginning so we woulnt move out. we both have to much respect for our parents. we would never just move out

[skater_boy]

you both need to impress your parents convince that its true love and maybe a family friend or a good relative can help you out to arrange a meeting btw both of your parents and discuss the matter

[angel_girl]

you both need to impress your parents convince that its true love and maybe a family friend or a good relative can help you out to arrange a meeting btw both of your parents and discuss the matter

yeah thx we'll try talking to them again.

[•Amrita•]

Try to introduce him properly to your family. Maybe once they realise he's not such a bad guy, they will be more willing to give him a chance.
Sometimes without knowing the person, parents can generalise and just say NO straight out.
You don't have to make it formal, but maybe get him to "bump" into your parents accidentally when they are out with you.
If that doesn't work, I guess you could do what some of my cousins have done, and give it some time. Parents tend to come around if they see that your truly into the relationship. I hope it works out for you guys.

[A®M§-HØU§E]

ok problem here:

Ive been seeing this guy for the past 3 years now and its getting serious (talking about marriage) but the thing is our parents sont agree to our relationship. Both his parents and my parents. I mean we are both hindu but from different countries. I understand their point of view but we both love each other. i dont know what to do. Any suggestions??

parents usually always see there kids and just children, and they think there children arent able to make grown up decisions. but u need to tell ur parents ur not a child and ur mature enuff to know what ur doing. if hes a decent guy and will look after u and actually loves u then explain to ur parents that u really think the guy ur in a relationship with for 3 yrs is the right guy for u.

u shudnt let them choose who YOU have to spend the rest of ur life wid, they should of course be involved but parents dont always look to there kids happiness, becuz they think ur immature or still see u as a child.

if ur parents do love u, and they respect u as an adult making a adult decision then they will be ok with ur choice, dont let them bully u into doing wat they want and end up marrying someone u wont ever be able to love, its jus gna end in divorce or end up being a unhappy marriage from which ur kids will suffer when u have dem.